Stefanss

Grüß Gott.

Stefan Sadistic Sir here.

“BDSM for me is a lifelong passion and a way of doing things. I can’ t remember the last girl I was friends with and her not knowing about my side or being already bruised [consensually]…or a person that does not know about it. It’s like a flag for me, which is why I have my own BDSM heraldic. The story of O was one of the films about BDSM that marked me… I know about this lifestyle since I was 9 years old…until 14 I was in a process to understand why, how and more importantly why I won’t go to jail. From 14 to 17-18 it was a constant learning by doing process for me which brought me to Fetlife as well. From the age of 20 I entered the Romanian BDSM community after ending a chapter in my life that was holding me to do so even tho I wanted to be a part of it since 18. I have my own rigid thoughts about BDSM, as for what means to be a true kinkster or a corrupted vanilla person. … “I like to think that BDSM is a sacred and extraordinary thing. I see it as a call, it’s not only about sado masochism. It’s about passion and call. I believe that there are a certain and special type of people that are into BDSM.’’”

I still believe this today, I do believe that the Lifestyle requires a certain type of individual, a certain type of commitment, a certain type of untamable wilderness, a certain type of intelligence.

As for my role in this Lifestyle: I could easily, easily. Easily. Call myself a Master. My practices, my fetishes, my preferences, my behavior, my feelings towards it describe the ‘’authentic Master/Mistress behavior” in terms of total commitment to the lifestyle, total control over the partner, 24/7, TPE (Total Power Exchange, for those of yous still new to this) or simply…having slaves. But I do not.

The best fetishes I have among the rest not so best:

• forced orgasm
• orgasm denial
• clothing restriction – no panties with dresses/skirts is #1
• pussy whipping (9 years old starter porn-video)
• clit torture

If you want to know more, you can just PM me.